Match making is an art no doubt, as there is so many things to be considered and
analyzed before the correct match is found. Gone are the days where the elders decided
the match and the whole family trusted and went with the decision. The youngsters
today have their own set of likes and preferences. The job of match making has become
a burden for the parents as they have to look for a match according to their son
or daughters preference.
If for example the groom is a professional say a doctor or lawyer, he might expect
a bride with the same qualification. Doctors especially prefer their spouses to
also be a doctor as there will be more understanding and common thinking between
them. But not all doctors look for professional brides or grooms. Some prefer a
homely bride who will be there for them waiting at home after a long days work.
But then they must make it a point to engage her in other positive activities so
that she doesn’t feel lonely waiting for her husband for long hours at a stretch.
Many professionals prefer to work together as it will keep them both together most
of the time. A person belonging to the same profession will definitely understand
the challenges and the selfless expected from her spouse at the work place. Doctors
need to go at odd hours and might spend most of their time in hospitals. An understanding
wife in the same profession might not mind much about these situation as much as
normal women. That’s why generally professionals look for matches in the same profession.
Another benefit in marrying a professional is that they can manage their profession
together as a team, instead of appointing or recruiting a new person. They can share
the work and can manage their work load easily. Professionals who are very serious
about their professions must weigh the pros and cons before choosing the right life
partner. They must be able to strike a balance between their profession and home.
Inspite of their busy schedule they must find time to spend with their family and
An understanding spouse can help in wisely striking a balance for him. She can take
care of him and can look after the household with minimal support from him. The
relationship thus will not be strained and the perfect family atmosphere can be