What decides the bride and the groom? Is it the looks, wealth, social status, character,
education or high paying job? If we look at some of the matrimonial columns in the
paper or the internet, you will find a list of what the bride looks for in a groom
and vice versa. Some are thought provoking and others are like small comical bits
which gives you a good laugh. What really can one expect when looking for a possible
When we look around we find a lot of couple who are in no way competent as far as
looks as concerned. They might look like brother and sister or even father and daughter.
But the kind of bondage and understanding they share will be amazing. Physical looks
are considered very seriously these days as the youngsters work in silicon jobs
and thrive in corporate culture. They look for highly fashionable brides with good
spoken English and party cultured.
Yet there is nothing wrong in desiring such brides or grooms as long as they realize
that just physical appearance alone doesn’t ensure a happy marriage. For a family
to thrive a good and decent job is a must. Nowadays both the bride and the groom
work in order to make both ends meet. The social demand and personal comfort levels
have risen so much that it is difficult to run a family with one income. For a good
job and equally great education becomes imperative.
Between the appearance and the job status some will compromise. If they think the
job security is their prime concern they might compromise on the looks of their
spouse. Practically all aspects cannot and need not be decked in one single person.
So find out what is most important in your life and then decide accordingly. Of
course if one is lucky enough to get all in one bride no one can be happier than
As far as physical looks are concerned it can always be changed to some extend.
The bride can go for a total make over, and change her less than ordinary looks
into a very fashionable page3 look. It is all matter of how one presents herself
or himself in public. Mannerism and attitudes can be changed according to ones preferences.
It all depends upon the society you move with and the friends you have. Therefore
not much importance should be given to physical looks in a marriage.